Zestful Blog Post #250
I so much don’t want this to be a brag post. Because I hate reading
brag posts, and so do you. I just want to make a point and give some
reminder-style advice about getting everything you can from a direct experience.
The other day Marcia and I journeyed from our home on
Florida’s Gulf coast to the Kennedy Space Center at Cape Canaveral to witness a
bit of history: the inaugural test flight of the Falcon Heavy rocket, part of
Elon Musk’s SpaceX program to improve rocket science and eventually get humans to
Mars. Super big rocket, super complicated, with a fun payload of Musk’s Tesla
car with a ‘guy’ in a space suit at the wheel. The launch represented a host of
firsts, so although it’s a gamble to drive all the way across the state to see a
space shot that could get scrubbed at the last minute, we decided to buy
tickets and take the risk. (We’d observed a Space Shuttle launch for free from
a grassy knoll in Titusville, but this time we wanted—apart from a closer
experience—nice washrooms and the opportunity to buy and consume hot loaded
nachos.)
And yeah! The launch was fabulous, but I won’t bore you with
the blow-by-blow. [Delete: Yeah, first we got gas at that Chevron over by the café,
then, you know, the weather was pretty nice, and like the traffic was really
heavy the closer we got to the center, you know, and we tried to see the rocket
from the causeway but we weren’t sure which thing sticking up in the distance
was it, plus there was some haze at that hour of the morning…] Delete delete
So what’s the point of this post?
1) To
be alive to the vastness of experience.
2) To
go after it.
3) To
improve your abilities to extrapolate and synthesize. This is the piece of
greatest importance for writers.
To illustrate, no blow-by-blow, but here’s a partial list of
my experiences and impressions from launch day:
Cursing endlessly at the drivers who disobeyed the signs and
roared ahead of us rule-followers queuing up for miles in the right lane as told.
Entertaining Marcia with inventive curses. Hatred surging in my heart for people
who cut ahead, but not debilitating hatred.
Is that a great blue heron? Or a crane? You’d think there’d
be gators in that big ditch.
Gigantic guy in a gigantic back brace.
Smells of cooking hot dogs. Yeah, nachos. More sunscreen.
Woodstockian sea of people looking in one direction, over
the roofline of the IMAX building, knowing it isn’t time yet.
Little girl in astronaut jumpsuit walking through the crowd
with head high, hoping to be taken for a real astronaut.
Anxiety. T-minus keeps getting longer.
Murmurs. Shouts. Adrenaline. Tachycardia.
The brightest fire in the world! A rend in the fabric of
reality!
Sonic booms, plural!! Sternum vibrations. Dude!
My God. My God. Look at that.
Face wet with tears. Friendship 7. The things imagined, the
things made real.
A French fry plopping at my feet from the sky, having presumably
been dropped by an overstimulated gull.
The point is, there’s so much waiting for you that you don’t
expect. Space shots are extraordinary, and not everybody gets a chance to see
one. But lots of other stuff happens that you can get out for and find way more
than what’s front and center. City council meetings. Climb that hill, just for
kicks. Ballgames. Prune that cherry tree. The movies. The lumpy blanket in the
back seat. The sound of the cork popping, the cookie crumbling, the cows coming
home. The look on that woman’s face when her boyfriend whispers to her. The guy
on the ladder throwing a hammer to the guy on the roof. The grace of the catch!
The feel of the breeze: What side of your face feels it? The young student
copying the Vermeer in the museum, her easel and paints, tiny green splash on
her white sneaker. The fear in that foreman’s voice. Scrape the ice off your
windshield. Close your eyes. The dogs say goodnight.
1) Say
yes.
2) Write
bits of it down.
3) Draw
it. Try.
4) Say
yes again.
5) And
again.
6) Take
everything with you as you set to work.
When you practice feeling the whole of an experience, you
can better bring detail to what you write, and you can better invent details with
which to deepen your writing.
On this rocket day, I made notes in my journal, drew crummy pictures
to help myself remember. Pencil shavings in the grass. Took some pictures with my phone camera. But
it’s the stuff in graphite on paper that’s gonna endure. That’s the stuff you’re
going to want to go back and look at. It’s so simple.
We have so much on our minds. Don’t forget to be here as
fully as you can. I’m not saying anything new. But I’m saying it my way, dammit.
Writers, feel it all. Say yes to it all. And capture a highlight or two. Or a
lowlight. Whatever is distinct. Do it in a word, a line. Don’t stress over it. If
it’s not fun, decide that it’s fun.
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