Zestful Blog Post #169
I hope the title of this post made you do a double-take,
because of course every story is like no other; every story is unique to some
extent. Not every story in the world, to be sure, is terribly interesting or
even worthwhile, which is the point. If you’re a friend of mine on Facebook—or Facefriends,
as my brother, who does not have an account there, gamely refers to it—you might have seen
my post the other day about my YMCA buddy Chuck. I’ve copied the post below,
after the picture.
Of any post I’ve ever put up on FB, this one has received
the most likes, comments, and shares. I’m not terribly active on FB, so to me
the following stats are remarkable: as of this writing, 197 likes, 29 comments,
5 shares. I have 1,087 friends on FB, though almost all of my posts are public
and I think anybody can like, comment, or share. People have been moved to
tears by the post. It’s a story about a guy who got a tough break and who is
working his damnedest to overcome it.
My point today is to reinforce simply this: People love
stories. People learn from stories. People get inspired by stories. People NEED
stories. If you tell a story from your heart, with love and truth, you will
succeed. What is success? It’s reaching readers, even one, with something
meaningful to them. If you are a storyteller, you are a core asset to this
world. Tell it plain, tell it fancy. But tell it.
Took this selfie yesterday while
chilling for a few minutes with Chuck in the snack room.
FB post:
So. This
story. Last year while lifeguarding part time at the local YMCA, I met a guy
named Chuck. Middle-aged, scrawny, disabled from a stroke. Used a base-line
manual wheelchair, shoved himself along mostly with one hand and one foot. Had
much trouble making himself understood, but I learned he'd been doing rehab for
months. I operated the lift to get him in and out of the pool, where he
regularly, doggedly attended water exercise classes. Made a point of calling
him by name and cheering him on.
Last summer, a
few months after getting to know him, was driving past the bus stop near the Y
and saw him sitting in his chair in the hot sun waiting for the bus. The
bastard was using THE BUS to get to and from his water exercise classes. How
much easier to just stay home and vegetate in front of the TV? How much easier
to just say, "I can't; (it's too much trouble)." How much easier to
say, "I don't have a helper; I can't." Solo, he was helping his own
crabbed-over, big-black-glasses-wearing, buck-toothed, determined ass.
After my
six-month stint lifeguarding, which ended last December, I didn't see him as
often, but I did see him. Yesterday, when I was swimming my lengths, I saw him
in the water exercise group and waved. Later, as I was leaving the building, I
saw him WALKING along the sidewalk outside. Using one arm-cane, big brace on
his leg, glasses held together with a walnut-sized wad of Scotch tape, slowly,
slowly, he was walking on his two feet.
Ran up to
him. "Chuck! You're walking!" He smiled and nodded, and that was a
hell of a great moment. A hell of a great moment. A hell of a beautiful sight.
[end of post]
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What a day. You're in Sept WD and this!
ReplyDeletePlus I have a loyal friend who posts nice comments on my blog!
ReplyDeleteWhat a fabulous story! Way to go, Chuck! I love his drive. And thank you for the message that people need stories. I'm stronger for hearing about Chuck's victory.
ReplyDeleteThanks. You are an incredible person, so is Chuck. Keep on inspiring us.
ReplyDeleteLeaves and Patricia, you're welcome, and thank YOU for sharing your feelings here.
ReplyDeleteI love your stories. Thanks for telling them.
ReplyDeleteBev, you're welks. So glad to see you stopping by to comment!
ReplyDeleteI saw this on your FB page. That's an inspiring story, for sure. It's hard to imagine having that much fortitude, that much courage to do what he did. And you had something to do with that. Who knows how much your encouragement meant to him each time. That's a great story and even greater being true.
ReplyDeleteThanks, BJ. The effort was all his, but it's true a kind word can be a boost for any of us.
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